Fulfill your social responsibilities too, there are always complaints

No matter how much you give to your loved ones, they still have complaints. Your son will say what did you earn and give to us? What have you given to me? What have you done for me? Your other relatives will also ask you such criticisms and questions. You will be very upset at that time and will feel cheated. Then you will feel very insulted.

Then a wave of gratitude will rise in your heart

You have put your whole life at stake. You have ruined your body for all this, you have ruined your sleep. And, even after that your own blood is complaining unnecessarily against you. On the contrary, if you have done even a little work for God, you have done even a little for anyone other than your family, you have done a favor to them and have done good to someone; then the wave that will rise in his heart will remove your tiredness. That person will bow down to you.

Become God's messenger

The obliged person will fold his hands in front of you and say- God has sent you for me. You have come in the form of God, you have come as God's messenger and have helped me. How much should I thank you. Then you will say- No no, I don't want to thank you, don't even say anything to anyone and don't even tell anyone. When you say this and move ahead, then the joy, the happiness, the enthusiasm that surges in your heart is difficult to put into words.

I should take away everyone's pain

At that time you feel like doing such favors to more people. You will say that why didn't God give me so much that I could take away everyone's pain in the world, remove everyone's lack. Now you see, how much difference is there between the reward of both the favors. On one hand, by giving a little, happiness awakens within you, on the other hand, even after giving everything, your loved ones have a lot of complaints against you. Do you know why it is so? Because at that time you were living in attachment. Those whom you were calling your own are not your own.

Earn for yourself and make your own path

In such a situation, I would suggest you to tell them that you all have come to this world with your own destiny. Don't try to see the world by sitting on your father's shoulders. Now try to see it by standing on your own feet. Earn for yourself and make your own path. Still, if you want to give, then give to them. Give them money as well as other assets.

But, give judiciously thinking how much is their share and how much is for society, how much is for God and how much is for the welfare of the soul. You must take out some time and do this division. See! The complaints of these own people will remain, even if you give them everything and you yourself become empty handed. Also keep in mind that the day you become empty handed, none of them will stand with you. Therefore, make every possible effort to make this garden of God beautiful and as much as is appropriate, do as much for your children as well.